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After you die, you are given a chance to be reborn and chose your gender. Would you be the same sex you are now?

Are there any benefits to one night stands?
Are there any scents that make you think about sex?
Are there any scents that turn you on?
Are there any songs that turn your mind to sex?
Are you a member of the mile high club?
Are you an uninhibited lover?
Are you comfortable being nude?
Are you ever embarrassed about your body during sex?
Are you glad that your first sexual partner was your first?
Are you loud?
Are you more or less interested in sex now than you were earlier in your life?
Are you willing to seek out new sexual experiences?
Are your genitals a source of pleasure to you?

Best sex?

Can best friends become lovers? Can lovers stay best friends?
Can there be desire without gender?
Can you do a strip tease?

Describe sweet, gentle sex
Describe the kind of sex you would find most thrilling.
Describe your ideal sex life in a year
Describe your ideal sex life in ten years.
Do nude pictures of you exist?
Do people ever take you for the gender other than the one on your birth certificate?
Do you always act appropriate for your gender?
Do you believe you satisfy your partner?
Do you believe you will learn more about sex over time and improve your sex life?
Do you believe your parents had a normal sex life?
Do you buy books on improving your sex life?
Do you enjoy foreplay?
Do you enjoy quickies?
Do you enjoy sex in a tub?
Do you enjoy sex in the shower?
Do you ever discuss your sexual relationship with friends?
Do you ever feel genderless?
Do you ever go away to just have sex?
Do you ever rent dirty movies?
Do you ever shake after sex?
Do you ever use a vibrator? Alone? With a partner?
Do you feel comfortable talking about sex with other people?
Do you feel comfortable talking about sex with your doctor?
Do you feel comfortable talking about sex with your partner?
Do you feel it is possible for someone to change their gender?
Do you feel unfaithful when you have sexual daydreams about someone other than your partner?
Do you find your genitals attractive?
Do you have a favorite sexual fantasy? Would you like to have it fulfilled?
Do you have a favorite time of day to have sex?
Do you have a preferred place to have sex?
Do you have a stash of erotica?
Do you have bondage fantasies?
Do you have oral sex during menstruation?
Do you have safe sex?
Do you know any transgendered people?
Do you know something about sex now that you didn't know when you were new to having sex?
Do you know the dance of the seven veils?
Do you know why a particular scent makes you think about sex?
Do you like long slow sex?
Do you regret the timing of your loss of virginity?
Do you shave your pubic hair?
Do you smoke after sex?
Do you subscribe to any porn mags?
Do you think erotica is a useful sex aid?
Do you think pornography is a useful sex aid?
Do you think sex changes after a couple is together for a long time?
Do you think size matters?
Do you think you have gotten better at sex as you have gotten older?
Do you trust your sexual partner? How did you develop trust in your sexual partner?
Do you use a safe word during sex?
Do you use your words during sex?
Do you wear sexy underwear for you?
Do you wish something about your sex life would improve?
Do you wish you did something differently during sex?
Do you wish you had lost your virginity with someone else?
Do you wish you had slept with fewer or more people?
Do you wish your partner did something differently during sex?

Does a romantic weekend have to include sex?
Does any kind of sex scare you?
Does sex ever make you cry happy tears?
Does sex ever relieve your cramps?
Does using a condom affect your enjoyment of sex?
Does your partner know what foreplay is?
Does your partner satisfy you?
Does your partner talk during sex?

Has anyone ever watched you have sex? Did you like it?
Has the length of time you date before having sex changed as you have gotten older?
Has your partner ever worn your lingerie?

Have you considered plastic surgery on your genitals to make them more attractive?
Have you ever acquired new sexual skills from a lover?
Have you ever acquired new sexual tastes from a lover?
Have you ever been dressed in just saran wrap for him?
Have you ever been seduced?
Have you ever been shocked by your sexual fantasies?
Have you ever bought your partner a g-string?
Have you ever bought your partner sex toys?
Have you ever bought your partner sexy underwear?
Have you ever broken wind during oral sex?
Have you ever considered changing your gender?
Have you ever dressed in uniform for sex?
Have you ever engaged in light bondage?
Have you ever felt guilty about having sex?
Have you ever felt guilty about not having sex?
Have you ever gotten caught by "the law" (or your parents or your partner) having sex?
Have you ever had a same sex fantasy?
Have you ever had a sexual experience with someone with an STD?
Have you ever had a threesome?
Have you ever had an awkward or embarrassing sexual experience?
Have you ever had an uninhibited lover?
Have you ever had breaking up sex?
Have you ever had cyber-sex with your partner?
Have you ever had cyber-sex?
Have you ever had make up sex?
Have you ever had sex at work?
Have you ever had sex at your office?
Have you ever had sex in a public place?
Have you ever had sex in a swimming pool?
Have you ever had sex in the ocean?
Have you ever had sex when you DID have a headache and the headache was cured?
Have you ever had sex while watching a dirty movie?
Have you ever had sex with someone and regretted it?
Have you ever had sex with someone else in the room?
Have you ever had sex with someone you didn't love?
Have you ever played with your gender representation?
Have you ever questioned the nature of gender?
Have you ever questioned your gender?
Have you ever questioned your sexuality?
Have you ever roleplayed during sex?
Have you ever said "not tonight I have a headache"? Did you really have a headache?
Have you ever seduced someone?
Have you ever seen someone you thought was transgendered? How did you react?
Have you ever shown up at his place just wearing a trench coat?
Have you ever told your female friends what your partner enjoys in bed?
Have you ever watched yourself having sex?
Have your children ever caught you having sex? How did you explain it?
Have your past feelings about sex affected how and when you have had sex with new partners?

How can you tell the difference between love and lust?
How did sex compare to your daydreams before the first time you had sex?
How did you feel after having sex for the first time with your current partner?
How did you learn a partner of yours had an STD?
How did you learn about sex?
How do you establish your partner is satisfied during sex?
How do you establish your partner was satisfied after the act?
How do you explain your physical limitations when it comes to sex to someone?
How do you feel about having sex for a large sum of money?
How do you feel about sex during menstruation?
How do you feel about sex ed in schools?
How do you feel after sex?
How do you handle hair removal after performing oral sex?
How do you let him know you are in the mood?
How do you relieve sexual frustration?
How do you turn your partner on?
How does he let you know he is in the mood?
How does society prevent you from fully expressing your sexual self?
How have your feelings regarding birth control changed since you first had sex?
How important is communication during sex?
How important is sex to a relationship?
How long do you usually date someone before having sex?
How many genders do you think there really are?
How many sexual partners have you had?
How much foreplay do you need?
How much will you discuss your sexual experiences with others? Do you give details about your own experiences or just talk in vague terms?
How often do you think a couple should have sex?
How would others describe your sexuality?
How would you articulate your sexual fantasy to someone who might want to do that with you?
How would you explain your psychological limitations when it comes to sex to someone?
How would you feel about your partner wearing your lingerie?
How would you feel if you woke up tomorrow and had no gender?
How would you like to expand your sexual horizons?
How would you like to meet someone to help you live out a sexual fantasy?

I like it ______________

If you could have the power to hear your S/O's every thought when you made love, would you want to? Would it upset you to have your S/O hear your thoughts?
If you fell in love with a gay man, how would you feel?
If you fell in love with a heterosexual man, how would you feel?
If you fell in love with a heterosexual woman, how would you feel?
If you fell in love with a lesbian woman, how would you feel?
If you fell in love with a transgendered person, how would you feel?
If you had one part of your body that anyone could touch and give you an instant orgasm, what part would you want to have that power?
If you had to name the best sexual advantage that women have over men, what would it be?
If you see someone on the street whose gender is unclear to you, what do you do?
If you were to have a one-night stand with a current celebrity, who would you choose?
If your vagina could talk what would it say?
If your vagina got dressed what would it wear?

Is breast size important when it comes to sex?
Is casual sex ever a good idea?
Is he ever in the mood and you just want to cuddle?
Is it better to be a talented lover or a romantic?
Is sexy lingerie a good gift?
Is the coyote a homophobe?
Is the Road Runner gay?
Is there a connection between gender and spirituality?
Is there anyone you had the opportunity to have sex with, you didn't and now you regret it?
Is there anyone you regret having had sex with?
Is there anything about sex that makes you feel awkward?
Is there something that gives you pride in your gender?
Is there something you would rather do than have sex?
Is your partner good with foreplay?
Is your partner loud?

Kinky Sex or Vanilla Sex?

Sex is ____________

Was your first sexual partner more experienced with sex than you were?

Were you disappointed the first time you had sex?
Were you ever told as a child that a gender specific behavior you were playing with was not ok?

What are your fears about sex?
What are your hopes about sex?
What benefit might you get by naming yourself something based on what you like to do sexually?
What book title describes your sexuality?
What do you do to let your partner know they are satisfying your needs?
What do you know about your parents views on sex?
What do you remember about the day you first had sex with your current partner?
What do you think the sexiest part of the human body is?
What does being the gender you are labelled on your birth certificate give you?
What features do you find sexy?
What fragrance reminds you of someone  you have been intimate with?
What fulfilled sexual fantasy have you had? Are you glad you fulfilled it?
What gender specific behaviors do you wish you were taught growing up?
What gender specific behaviors were you TAUGHT when you were growing up?
What has been the largest age difference between you and a sexual partner?
What is a turn off for you?
What is missing from your sex life?
What is the appropriate age for having sex?
What is the best method you have found for shaving your pubic hair?
What is the difference between desire and lust?
What is the difference between love, sex and desire?
What is the essential sign of gender in your opinion?
What is the most perverted situation you have ever been in?
What is the purpose of sex?
What is the raciest thing you ever have said to someone?
What is the sexiest dream you have ever had?
What is your best sexual memory?
What is your best talent in bed?
What is your earliest memory of anything to do with sex?
What is your favorite kind of sex?
What is your favorite part of sex with your current partner?
What is your favorite part of sex?
What is your favorite room in the house for having sex?
What is your favorite time of day for sex?
What is your idea of gender?
What is your opinion of premarital sex?
What is your partner's best talent in bed?
What is your sexiest feature?
What is your signature move during sex?
What kind of time limit on meeting your sexual fantasy are you comfortable with?
What makes for a romantic weekend?
What makes you eager to have sex?
What makes you feel sexy?
What might you try during sex if you knew you could stop it if you didn't like it?
What misconceptions about sex did you have at first?
What movie title describes your sexuality?
What part of sex do you think your partner enjoys the most?
What qualities do you find sexy in people?
What qualities do you look for in a lover?
What sexual activities do you consider taboo?
What sexual activities do you want to try but haven't been brave enough yet?
What sexual activities would you never try?
What sexual position have you never tried but want to?
What song title best describes your sexuality?
What special place on your body feels unbelievably good when kissed?
What taboos have you broken without harming anyone?
What unfulfilled sexual fantasy do you have? Do you really want to fulfull it?
What was your most disappointing sexual experience?
What was your thought when you first saw an adult penis?
What were your thoughts and reactions right after your first sexual experience?
What would it take for you to tell your partner your fantasy?
What would you do if one of your parents told you they were transgendered?

When did you find out what most pleases you sexually?
When was the first time you achieved orgasm?
When was the last time you made love so suddenly that you couldn't have predicted it?

Where and when are you comfortable being nude?
Where do you buy sexy lingerie?
Where do you not liked to be licked or kissed during sex?
Where do you not liked to be touched during sex?
Where have you always wanted to make love?
Where is a strange place you have made love?
Where is a wonderful place you have made love?
Where is an awkward place you have made love?
Where is the most unusual place you have ever had sex?

Which would you prefer:  for your genitals glow when you were attracted to someone, or to play merry go round music that was loud enough for others to hear?

Who falls asleep first after sex?
Who has been your worst lover?
Who is the most fantastic kisser you have known?
Who was the first person you felt sexually attracted to?
Who was your first sexual partner?
Who was your most talented lover?
Who were you most sexually attracted to?

Worst sex?

Would you ever have sex for money?
Would you ever have sex with someone you met online?
Would you ever lap dance for your partner?
Would you ever pose nude for a magazine?
Would you sell your genitals for a million dollars?
Would you sleep with someone for a million dollars, if you were single?
Would you sleep with someone for a million dollars, no strings attached?
Would you stay married if there was no sex due to a medical reason?
Would you stay married if there was no sex for a psychological reason?
Would you take a course on improving your sex life?
Would you take a tantric sex course?
Would you wear a costume during sex?

You've been stricken with a terrible disease - the cause of this disease? Orgasms and chocolate. In order to get better, you MUST eliminate one. Which do you kick to the curb? (I realize that there are some bizarre souls on this earth who do NOT like chocolate so if you are one of those weirdos, substitute in the comfort food of your choice.)

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