Couples

Are relationships better if you start out as friends first?
Are you suspicious when he sends you flowers for no reason?
Candlelit bath for two?

Did he pay for dinner on your first date?
Do all problems in relationships lie with both members?
Do you allow your boyfriend to go out with just the boys?
Do you always know where your partner is?
Do you believe a wife should be submissive?
Do you ever bathe together?
Do you ever do Cosmo quizzes with your partner?
Do you ever go to sports events with your boyfriend just because he enjoys it?
Do you ever massage your partner?
Do you ever shower together?
Do you ever take your boyfriend out to eat?
Do you fight often with your partner?
Do you finish each others sentences?
Do you go to bars with your boyfriend? Do you enjoy it?
Do you have nicknames for any of your partner's body parts?
Do you ignore your partner at a party?
Do you kiss and make up?
Do you kiss with your eyes closed?
Do you know what sizes your partner wears?
Do you like when your partner notices you have lost weight?
Do you listen when your partner tells you about his day?
Do you make long phone calls to other people when your partner is at home?
Do you nag your partner?
Do you pretend not to notice when you are mad at him?
Do you remember your anniversary?
Do you share the toothpaste?
Do you watch sporting events your partner participates in?
Do you wear clothing your partner bought for you even if it isn't your style?
Do you tell him if you go out to dinner without underwear?
Do you use the same deodorant?

Does he call when he says he will?
Does he ever look at other women? Stare? How do you feel about that?
Does he ever send you flowers for no reason?
Does he ever turn his underwear inside out and wear them again?
Does he leave the toilet seat up?
Does he pretend not to notice when you are mad at him?
Does he remember your anniversary?
Does he scratch himself in front of you?
Does he scratch himself in public?
Does he sing in the shower? Do you encourage that?
Does he snore?
Does he talk in his sleep?
Does he wear boxers or briefs? Do you like them?
Does your boyfriend burp or fart often?
Does your boyfriend ever spend time with your family without you?
Does your boyfriend like your family?
Does your boyfriend look nervous when you discuss commitment?
Does your boyfriend or dh ever sing to you?
Does your boyfriend shower daily?
Does your boyfriend take care not to mess up your place?
Does your closeness drive other people crazy?
Does your dh get up in the night to check on suspicious noises if you ask him to do so?
Does your family like your boyfriend?
Does your husband shower daily?
Does your lover ever wink at you across a crowded room?
Does your partner buy you the right size clothes? Too small? Too big?
Does your partner ever massage you?
Does your partner ever pick his nose in front of you?
Does your partner go to the ballet with you?
Does your partner have a beard?
Does your partner have any trophies? Where does he display them?
Does your partner ignore you at a party?
Does your partner listen when you tell him about your day?
Does your partner shave even on weekends?
Does your partner tell funny stories?

Has your current love seen the video of your first marriage?
Has your partner ever bought you diamonds?
Has your partner ever said you were fat?
Has your partner ever worn your underwear?
Have you ever accidentally broken something new belonging to your partner?
Have you ever broken wind in front of your boyfriend?
Have you ever pretended to enjoy sports to improve a relationship?
Have you ever put panties in his briefcase?
Have you ever recorded over his favorite movie or sports game he was saving?
Have you ever thrown out something of your partner's and claimed not to know what happened to it?
Have you ever thrown out your partner's collection of something?
Have you ever thrown out your partner's favorite shirt?
Have you ever thrown out your partner's old, hole filled underwear?
Have you told your partner about all of your past relationships?

How did you know he was the "one"?
How did you meet your dh?
How did you meet your partner?
How did you meet your SO?
How do you tell your partner their fly is undone?
How does your relationship hinder you reaching your goals?
How does your relationship with your partner help you in your life goals?
How have your relationships with your partner changed since you first met? first got married?
How important do you think you are to your partner?
How long have you been married?
How would you feel if your partner had a model pin up in the garage? In his office? In your bathroom?
How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?

If you could alter one physical characteristic of your mate, what would you change?
If you could change one thing about your marriage, what would it be?
If you found out tomorrow that you were pregnant, how would you react? How would it change your relationship?
Is it truly possible to be with one person for the rest of your life?
Is your partner a nag?

Three things that attract you to your partner
Three things you admire about your partner

What agreements between you and your partner are so important to you that you would leave if he broke them?
What do you dislike most about being in a committed relationship?
What do you enjoy most about being in a committed relationship?
What does DH do that makes you not feel special?
What does DH do to make you feel special?
What does your husband call your mother behind her back?
What does your husband call your mother?
What essay would you write about your husband's best qualities?
What first attracted you to your dh?
What irritates you when your dh asks?
What is it you like best about your mate's personality?
What is the largest age difference you have had in a romantic relationship?
What is unusual about your spouse?
What is your current love's sign?
What is your former love's sign?
What is your partner's scent?
What one thing made you fall in love with your partner?
What outfit or article of clothing do you like to see your spouse wearing the most?
What parts of your body do you prefer your partners not touch?
What things would you like to know better about your partner?
What was the biggest surprise about marriage?
What word best describes your current relationship?
What would be your reaction if your spouse cheated on you?
What would your partner like better: a jigsaw or a jigsaw puzzle?
What's your S/O's biggest complaint about you?

When did you go on your first real date?
When did you have your first date with your spouse or significant other?
When did your partner meet your parents?
When do you think it is appropriate for your boyfriend to meet your parents?
When he asks you "What's wrong?" Do you say "Nothing" even if something is eating you?
When would you read your partner's journal?
When you are in a new relationship, do you trust your partner until you have a reason to do otherwise or do you withhold trust until you have a reason to trust?

Who admits they are wrong after a fight first?
Who hogs the covers?
Who in your relationship is more commitment phobic?
Who makes most of the decisions in your relationship?
Who said I love you first?

Will he kiss your stretchmarks?
Will you kiss him good night if he has garlic breath?
Will you kiss him good night if he has onion breath?
Will you kiss him good night if he just has plain bad breath?
Will you kiss him with morning breath?
Will you scratch his back?
Will your boyfriend go to a chick flick with you?
Will your boyfriend voluntarily RENT a chick flick with you?
Will your boyfriend watch your favorite shows with you even if he doesn't have any interest?
Will your partner call a plumber if you need one?

Would you belly dance for him?
Would you call in sick for your boyfriend?
Would you enter your dh in a husband of the year contest?
Would you ever use his brush?
Would you ever use his toothbrush?
Would you get breast implants to please your partner?
Would you give him a foot massage?
Would you like to be totally alone with your husband for a month?
Would you like your spouse to be both smarter and more attractive than you?
Would your boyfriend or dh hold your handbag while you tried on a dress?
Would your boyfriend or dh hold your handbag while you went to the restroom?
Would your partner go to the opera with you?Would they enjoy it?
Would you?
Would your partner go to visit your grandmother? In a nursing home?


Family

Are you close to your mom and dad?
Are you one of the lucky ones in your family who people say over and over and over again "oh you look just like great aunt edna". … or some such thing?

Did your parents spend enough time with you when you were a child?
Do you consider your mother a friend?
Do you excuse yourself from the room to belch when with close family?
Your lover?
Do you feel you are better than your family?
Do you feel you are close to your family?
Do you have a quirky family member that is just a lot of fun to be around? Who tells off the wall stories or just seems more adventurous?
Do you know anyone or was anyone in your family killed in a war?
Do you remember your parents fighting when you were a child?
Do you remember your parents kissing when you were a child?
Do you talk to your parents about your love life?
Do you think one of your parents loved you more than the other parent loved you?
Do/did you say "I love you" enough to your parents?

Has your boyfriend met your parents?
Has your father told you he loves you enough?
Has your mother told you she loves you enough?
Have you ever gotten a letter from your mom that was special to you? If not, what would a special letter from your mom say?

How did your parents discipline you?
How did your parents meet?
How do you plan to care for your aging parents?
How have your relationships with your parents changed since you were a child?
How long would you allow your mother to visit you?
How long would your partner be willing to have your mother visit you?
How many siblings do you have?
How much do you know about your great-grandparents?
How often do you talk to your mother or other family on the phone?
How would you feel if you found out one of your parents was having an affair?
How would you feel if your mother remarried?
If you could find out the real answer, what question would you really want to know the answer from your parents?

If you didn't know your parents, what two people would you choose as your parents?
If you had to name the person in your family you must admire, who would it be?
If your father was an animal, what animal would he be?
If your mother was an animal, what animal would she be?
If your siblings were animals, what would they be?
Is your father your friend?

Tell me a story your family might tell about you to a guest
Three things you like about your father
Three things you like about your mother

Were your parents married when you were conceived?
What character or physical traits did you inherit from your father?
What character or physical traits did you inherit from your mother?
What do you and your siblings share in common?
What do you wish for your father?
What do you wish for your mother?
What has your father often said?
What has your mother often said?
What is a trait you do not share with your siblings?
What is something your parents have done that you haven't forgiven? What would it take for you to forgive them?
What is the most common issue you and your parents have argued about?
What is your most beautiful childhood memory of your parents?
What is your most horrifying childhood memory of your parents?
What relatives would you choose as friends if you weren't related?

When you were born, how old were your parents?
Where does your father's family come from?
Where does your mother's family come from?
Who in your family are you closest to?
Who in your family are you most like?
Who were you raised by?


Friends

Are most of your friends older or younger than you?
Can people be friends with people much younger?
Can people be friends with those much older than they are?

Do most of your close friends live near you or far away?
Do you brag about your partner to your girlfriends?
Do you choose friends based on commonalities with you?
Do you choose friends based on gender?
Do you choose friends based on their identities?
Do you ever feel you are better than your friends?
Do you ever wish you had something that belongs to a friend?
Do you fight often with your friends?
Do you have any friends that you don't respect something they believe in?
Do you have any gay or lesbian friends?
Do you keep in touch with anyone from your childhood?
Do you loan money to friends?

Has a friend ever betrayed you?
Have you ever gone on vacation with your best friend?
How did you meet your best friend?
How have you lost friends other than death?

What animal would your best friend be if she was an animal?
What friend can you flirt with?
What friend can you tell anything?
What friend do you go to for advice?
What friend do you miss the most?
What friend do you need to forgive?
What friend do you need to say something important to but you haven't had the courage to do so yet?
What friend do you not take seriously?
What friend have you had the best adventures with?
What friend have you known the longest amount of time?
What friend is least like you?
What friend is most like you?
What friend makes you laugh most often?
What friend may you lose?
What friend should you not flirt with as much as you do?
What friend should you not have kissed?
What friend uses the most of your energy?
What friend would make a good godparent to your child?
What friend would you like to kiss?
What gender are most of your friends?
What is the best piece of advice a friend has given you?
What is the largest age difference you have had in a friendship?
What is unusual about your best friend?
What traits do you admire in your closest friends?
What traits do you look for in a friend?
What traits do you wish your closest friends would change?
What would cause you to end a friendship?

When was the last time you saw the friend you miss the most?
Which of your friends has the strongest personality?
Who are your two closest friends?
Who did you play with as a child?
Who is a friend you would like to be closer with?
Who is your best friend?
Who is your most successful friend?
Who is your sloppiest friend?
Who was your best friend as a teenager?


Love & Attraction

Are bald men sexy?
Are you always aware of your partner's presence even if you don't see or hear him?
Are you currently in love?
Are you generally monogamous?
Are you the cat or the mouse when you are attracted to someone?

Do men make passes at girls who wear glasses?
Do you believe in dreams come true?
Do you believe in falling in love?
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Do you ever dream about an ex husband/lover/boyfriend/etc?
Do you fall in love every time?
Do you flirt with other people with your partner present? How do they like it?
Do you have a "type" of person you regularly fall for?
Do you have a crush?
Do you have a secret admirer?
Do you keep in touch with ex-lovers or people you dated?
Do you keep old love letters?
Do you keep old love letters from relationships you aren't in anymore? Where do you keep them?
Do you like men with hairy chests?
Do you prefer to pursue or be pursued in a relationship?
Do you remember your very first kiss? How old were you?
Do you think your boyfriend's brother is cute?

Guys/girls, what physical feature does your Significant Other have that you couldn't live without?
Have you ever been hit on by a member of the opposite sex?
Have you ever been hit on by a member of the same sex?
Have you ever gone on a romantic weekend with your boyfriend's best friend?
Have you ever had a secret admirer?
Have you ever cheated on a spouse or boyfriend?
How do you know when you are in love?
If your spouse wanted to be with someone else JUST ONCE and would never be unfaithful again, would you let them do it?

What do you do when the kind of person you are normally attracted to flirts with you?
What do you do when the kind of person you are normally turned off by flirts with you?
What do you need when you are in love?
What has been the most recent time you fell in love?
What has been your most romantic experience?
What intellectual ability do you find attractive?
What is a romantic dinner for two?
What is something that you find frighteningly unattractive?
What is the greatest thing would you sacrifice for love?
What is your secret passion?
What personality trait do you find attractive?
What physical trait do you find attractive?
What qualities would your ideal partner have?
What was the first time you fell in love?
What was the most romantic date you have been on?
What was your most consuming crush?
What words describe your current love life?
What words describe your love life as a whole?
What wouldn't you sacrifice for love?

Who is someone you pursued for a long time?
Who is someone you successfully pursued quickly?
Who is someone you unsuccessfully pursued?
Would you ever be in an interracial relationship?
Would you go on a date with Mel Gibson?
Would you go on a date with Tom Cruise?
Would you turn down a date with your favorite celebrity because you were involved with someone?
Your lover leans over and kisses you long and hard on the mouth, How do you react?


Other People

Are you able to forgive your enemies?
Are you comfortable alone?
Are you comfortable socializing in groups?
Are you comfortable spending time with one person?

Describe any people or animals around you.
Do you enjoy being defined by your relationships?
Do you enjoy observing others?
Do you feel comfortable crying in front of one special person?
Do you feel comfortable crying in front of other people?
Do you feel relationships work out on their own?
Do you fight fair?
Do you get more compliments then you give?
Do you have a secret you have never shared with anyone?
Do you hold grudges?
Do you interrupt other people's conversations?
Do you introduce yourself in social situations?
Do you know anyone famous?
Do you know anyone who can't read?
Do you know your boyfriend's ex?
Do you know where your first love is today?
Do you lose control in heated arguments?
Do you manage relationship problems well?
Do you save letters and postcards?
Do you seek relationships with people similar to you or more opposite?
Do you think you can read other people's body language well?
Do you wish you could improve communication with someone? Who?
Does anyone else live with you?

How are you with apologies?
How do you prefer to keep in touch with other people? Phone? email? Instant message? snail mail?
How is communication in your world?
How many people have you said "I love you" to?
How often do you compliment people?
How many people have asked you to marry them?

If you asked the people closest to you to describe you with one word, what one word would they use most often?
If you could have had more time together with someone you know, who would you want it to be with?
If you could, where would you banish your worst enemy?
If you heard your high school reunion was next month, would you want to go?
If you were guaranteed honest responses to any three questions, whom would you question, and what would you ask?
If your best friend sleeps with your boyfriend/spouse/SO do you blame your love interest or your best friend?
Is male/female dichotomy natural?
Is there a group of people you don't belong to (blondes for instance) that you feel comfortable making jokes about?
Is there a letter you'd love to write to someone but can't or won't for some reason? (Example: "Dear Boss, You are an idiot." Or. "Dear [expletive deleted], Must you park your car so close that I can't even open my door?!" LOL.) Go ahead and write it here, and get it out of your system!

People you consider geniuses
People you consider heroes
People you consider ignorant
Someone you wish you could hug today
Tell us about a time when you have hurt someone emotionally .

What actor would you go on a date with?
What annoying habit does your SO/DH - or another friend, family member, or co-worker - have that isn't really worth fighting about but bugs you anyway?
What are things appealing about men?
What are things appealing about women?
What are things unappealing about men?
What are things unappealing about women?
What are ways that love makes it possible to survive in society?
What astrological sign are you least compatible with?
What astrological sign are you most compatible with?
What characteristics do men have?
What characteristics do women have?
What compliment would you like to give to a person in your life today?
What do people you know need to do to loosen up and lighten up about it?
What do you ask when you really want to get to know someone?
What do you hate people to ask?
What do you love people to ask?
What do you say when you really want to get to know someone?
What do you think a "real man" is?
What do you think a "real woman" is?
What irritates you when people ask it?
What is a saying about men you believe is true?
What is a saying about women you believe is true?
What is something in your life that is being done for you by another person that you should do for yourself?
What is something in your life that is being done for you by another person?
What is the earliest hour you expect/allow people to call your home with a non-emergency phone call?
What is the latest you expect/allow people to call your home with a non-emergency phone call?
What is the one thing the opposite gender simply doesn't "get" about your gender?
What is your longest grudge?
What makes you want to get to know someone?
What one thing would you change about someone in your life?
What people have affected you most?
What person do you regret never having a relationship with?
What person has been exceptionally kind to you?
What person made you miserable for a long time?
What person/group of people do you have the most compassion for?
What things are too personal to discuss with others?
What two famous people would you choose to be your parents?
What two people occupy your thoughts the most?
What type of person do you not get along with?
What was the best reunion you have been to?
What would you do if you didn't have commitments to others?
What's the most mysterious thing about the opposite sex?

When do you interrupt other people's conversations?
When sharing the details of your day, what do you tend to do?
When was the last time you got into a fight?
When was the last time you hugged someone?
When was the last time you kissed someone?
When was the last time you said "I love you"?
When was the last time you said you were sorry?
When you discuss your love life with others, what do you tend to do?

Who always makes the sparks fly with you?
Who do you most fear?
Who do you never want to see again?
Who do you still talk to from high school?
Who do you want to speak at your funeral?
Who has been most influential in your life?
Who has been your best friend as an adult?
Who has been your worst enemy as an adult?
Who has the last word in your relationships?
Who have you hurt emotionally?
Who hurt you the most?
Who in your life is just plain peculiar?
Who is easiest to apologize to in your life?
Who is the last person who said "I love you" to you?
Who is the last person you said "I love you" to?
Who makes you happy?
Who should NOT speak at your funeral?
Who was your worst enemy as a teenager?
Who would you love to see again?
Who's been mean to you lately? Or: To whom have you been mean, or at least been tempted to be mean?
Whose phone number do you always remember?
Would you ever tell everyone honestly what you think of them?
Would you interfere with an ex's love life?


Weddings

At what age should people NOT marry before?
Did you crash your husband's bachelor party?
Did you elope?
Did you have a big wedding?
Did you have the wedding of your dreams?
Do you ever get too old to get married?
Do you have more than just a wedding anniversary? (first date? First kiss? First time you said "I love you") Have you ever been divorced?
Have you ever been married?
Have you ever said yes to a proposal and then changed your mind?
If you had to choose something other than a wedding ring to serve as a symbol of marriage, what would you choose?
If you knew then what you know now about weddings and marriage, Would you have eloped instead of having a big wedding?
Is it or was it important to you to have your wedding a certain way?
Was your dh on time to your wedding?
Were you married in a gown or a suit or dress?
Were you on time to your wedding?
What is a good reason to call off a wedding?
What was the best part of your wedding?
What was the worst part of your wedding?
What's the best wedding gift you recieved?
Would you ever call off your wedding?

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